Anal sex can be a lot of fun if it is done the right way, otherwise it can be really painful. In many cases, first-timers do not try anal sex the right way and get intimidated by the amount of pain that it causes as a result. The area around the anus is highly sensitive and it allows partners to experience a different sensation, something which is otherwise not possible to experience with vaginal sex.
However, couples who have never tried anal sex before should try to take it easy and do it the right way if they want to really enjoy it. The muscles in and around the anus are quite tight and are not as flexible as the vaginal muscles. So when trying anal sex for the first time, you would have to first try to relax those muscles by massaging them gently for a long time.
Ask your partner to massage it for you gently till you feel the muscles loosening up. You could then progress and your partner can gently insert a finger inside very slowly. Do not pull out the finger suddenly outside otherwise you would have to start all over again. Keep the finger inside and gently move it around in circular motions or try slowly thrusting it inside and out, like a penis would.
Once you are comfortable with it your partner can then insert the second finger inside. Another option is to use an anal toy like a vibrator or an anal dildo and insert it slowly inside and let it gently massage it for you while it loosens up the muscles inside.
Porn usually shows actors straight away inserting their penis in the anus, which is actually not recommended or even possible in real life situation since it would only cause a lot of pain. Do it gently and spend some time getting used to it.
Once you are used to it and you are actually enjoying it, lubricate the penis with a good quality gel, preferably a water based lubricant. The anus does not have a natural lubricant like a vagina so a good amount of lubricant would be needed. You might even need to even re apply it several times during anal sex.
Insert the penis inside slowly and go slow, no vigorous thrusting in the beginning. Move it gently inside till both get used to it. Once you try it two or three times, anal sex would become easy, less uncomfortable or painful and it would really open up a lot of new exciting doors for you.
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