Partners who have been together for a long time would definitely have experienced a dull phase in their sex life. This is quite a common thing and nothing to really worry about. Even after a long period of dull sex life it is still possible to get your sex life back on track. When sex becomes robotic it becomes dull and boring. However, it is possible to set things right and make it interesting again with the tips given below:
Go back to the basics
The reason why sex becomes so dull and boring for most of us is because it looses it mysteriousness to us. Over time it becomes very regular and rational to us because we allow it to become like that. Go back to the basics and loosen up your heart and mind. Do not think about anything, no work issues and no pending chores when you are getting intimate with your partner. Be totally free and animal like.
Take it slow
Couples who have been together for a very long time tend to speed up their sex lives. Sex is a matter of only a few minutes for them which is in fact quite wrong. Let sex be what it is meant to be, a slow, rhythmic process which begins with caressing, goes on to kissing, deep kissing, touching, intimate touching and a lengthy foreplay before the actual act of sex. Foreplay is one of the most important things in sex and it should definitely not be ignored.
Learn new tricks and positions
Whether it is foreplay, oral sex, anal or regular sex, learn to slow it down and savor it. Make all of your movements controlled and slow. Try various stalling and teasing methods to avoid orgasm and bring back the memories of your past sex life. Try something which you have never tried before. Even if you have already tried dozens of positions, there are still a dozen more to try. Try various intimate techniques.
Introduce sex toys to your partner since it is one of the best ways to get the spice back in the sex life. There are several different types of sex toys which are available today just for couples. Try the simpler ones and progress slowly to the more complicated ones. Adding the heat back to the sex life is not really difficult if both partners put in an effort to do so.
Partners who have been together for a long time would definitely have experienced a dull phase in their sex life. This is quite a common thing and nothing to really worry about. Even after a long period of dull sex life it is still possible to get your sex life back on track. When sex becomes robotic it becomes dull and boring. However, it is possible to set things right and make it interesting again with the tips given below:
Go Back to the Basics
The reason why sex becomes so dull and boring for most of us is because it looses it mysteriousness to us. Over time it becomes very regular and rational to us because we allow it to become like that. Go back to the basics and loosen up your heart and mind. Do not think about anything, no work issues and no pending chores when you are getting intimate with your partner. Be totally free and animal like.
Take it Slow
Couples who have been together for a very long time tend to speed up their sex lives. Sex is a matter of only a few minutes for them which is in fact quite wrong. Let sex be what it is meant to be, a slow, rhythmic process which begins with caressing, goes on to kissing, deep kissing, touching, intimate touching and a lengthy foreplay before the actual act of sex. Foreplay is one of the most important things in sex and it should definitely not be ignored.
Learn New Tricks and Positions
Whether it is foreplay, oral sex, anal or regular sex, learn to slow it down and savor it. Make all of your movements controlled and slow. Try various stalling and teasing methods to avoid orgasm and bring back the memories of your past sex life. Try something which you have never tried before. Even if you have already tried dozens of positions, there are still a dozen more to try. Try various intimate techniques.
Introduce sex toys to your partner since it is one of the best ways to get the spice back in the sex life. There are several different types of sex toys which are available today just for couples. Try the simpler ones and progress slowly to the more complicated ones. Adding the heat back to the sex life is not really difficult if both partners put in an effort to do so.
No related posts.
Related posts brought to you by Yet Another Related Posts Plugin.
This entry was posted
on Thursday, January 28th, 2010 at 6:59 pm and is filed under Sex Tips for Girls, Sex Tips for Men.
You can follow any responses to this entry through the RSS 2.0 feed.
You can leave a response, or trackback from your own site.
okay, they will teach you a cheer and dance. you dont need to be flexible or tumble for a middle school team. you will need to learn a toe touch and possibly a herky (jumps; check out you tube) but thats really it. just smile and have lots of sprit and you’ll for sure make it